- AVOID the "multi-tasker" NO ONE is an expert Joiner, Electrician, Brickie AND plumber! it just ain't plausible.
- NEVER give all the money until you've checked the work
- FIND OUT exactly what they plan to do (more applicable to repairs)
- AVOID the tradesman who gives you a price, then offers a "big discount", it usually means a rush job. A proper worker will look at the job then tell you the ONLY price they can give.
- ASK QUESTIONS - if he/she sounds like they don't know what they're talkin about, more than likely they don't.
- NEVER hire a friend, or the friend of a friend, unless you're SURE they did a good job MORE THAN ONCE before! (including a professional, well timed and consistant job)
- Make sure you have a working contact number and address incase they take off half way through a job.
- DON'T tell them your budget, the price should be the same no matter what you have to spend!
- A Professional worker will NOT, smoke in your house without asking you...
- If you see a job done well somewhere else, ask for the contact details, and keep it, you never know when you'll need it.
- Keep the number of a good Plumber and Electrician, handy, in case of an emergency, it will stop you getting ripped off in a panic, by using the yellow pages.
- BEWARE of workmen who are stand-offish, it makes it easier for them to walk away, try to get some friendly chatting going, its a lot harder to rip you off with a guilty conscience.
Friday, 25 January 2008
Monday, 14 January 2008
They say that youth is wasted on the young,
but maybe wisdom is wasted on the old.
Wasting so much time thinking what could have been
Seeing life, like through a movie screen.
What if you looked around, and saw everything now
like anything could happen if you thought about how
What if age and and what you couldn't do
No longer defined what it meant to be you.
What if you looked around you and saw what still could be
instead of longing for things that only others can feel.
What if you didn't think your life was measured
by the moments you hold on to and the "things" you treasure.
What if in the end you stopped and looked around,
and saw the people you love, finding what you've found;
A legacy mixed with fun and smiles
where your travels are not marked by miles.
Where you can learn more by standing still
than using life like a check out till;
Counting what you have and haven't bought
blaming "bad luck" and what you were never taught.
What if life was a blank canvas at any age
where you add more colour, and don't paint a cage.
What if you looked at the young, like another you
with a bit less experience, but equal views.
What if you never made an excuse for anything again
and enjoyed being wrong, and being different, not the same.
What if you laughed at the years that have passed
and saw only beginnings, not reliving the past.
What if you lived in the moment, and saw everything right here
instead of taking photographs to remember next year.
What if you never felt alone, sitting by yourself,
and it made you stronger, when you're with everyone else.
What if you didn't try fit everything you haven't done,
into a day or a year, just stood outside to feel the sun.
What if it all stopped tomorrow, and life was just a test
would you count the bad times, or the times you were blessed?
Would you want to impart wisdom, tell them how to avoid pain?
or would you know they'd learn some new, doing exactly the same.
What if instead of changing the scenery, you found another you,
who sees life through others eyes, instead of making them see you.
What if young or old, we were equals to each other,
and accepted that the child, is or will be a father or a mother.
Life is happening now, it isn't the last or next 40 years,
Life won't wait for you to get it together
Life is happening now, you know as much as anyone else,
you can't change other people, only yourself.
What would it be?
(* Remember, they won't necessarily be your favourite songs!)
Waking Up: Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield
Average Day: Bring On The Day by Charlotte Martin
First Date: Moonlight Kiss by Bap Kennedy
Falling In Love: Brighter Than Sunshine by Aqualung
Fight Scene: Wall In Your Heart by Shelby Lynee
Breaking Up: What Hurts The Most by Rascal Flatts
Getting Over Them: Feeling Good by Nina Simone
Getting Back Together: Everything by Alanis Morrisette
Life is Okay: Change Your Mind by Sister Hazel
Sad Moment: 100 Years by Five For Fighting
Driving at Night: Life Is A Highway by Rascal Flatts
Flashback: Baby Give It Up - KC & The Sunshine Band
Partying: Dancing In The Moonlight by Toploader
Happy Dance: Young Hearts Run Free by Kim Mazelle
Sex Scene: Feelin Love by Paula Cole
Regretting: I Started A Joke by The Wallflowers
Long Night Alone: Breathe by Anna Nalick
Death Scene: Send Me On My Way by Rusted Root
End Credits: Between The Minds by Jack Savoretti
Sunday, 6 January 2008
Level 1 - The Claustrophobic
This shopper has a bit more motivation, directed by the need to NOT EVER pay the normal price for clothes. Venturing confidently in the jumble of people and clothes, undeterred by the small obsticles.This Shopper usually ends up with four tops from the Primark reduced aisle totalling £4. These guys are basically your amateur shoppers, with commitment that extends only as far as the buzz you get from one cup of a Starbuck's Mocha Latte.
Armed with a larger handbag (or backpack guys), containing the essential bottle of refreshment (non alcoholic, that's a completely different category, that I'm not touching), snacks, the route mentally plotted out and an early morning start, to optimise time and bargain potential. The expert shopper shops alone, 'cause it ain't pretty! This shopper has taken their clothes budget for the year (and then some) and divided it neatly into the major sales periods, all of which mere training for their Mount Everest, the January sales. This shopper is constantly fuelled by refills "to go" of Starbucks Sumatra Espresso (i.e. A LOT of caffiene). Motivation is not a problem for this relentless consumer, who will sometimes visit EVERY relevant shop, regroup to decide which shops to purchase items from, then re-visit them in order of queue size. Yes, I know what your thinking... this is waffle, no such shopper could exist... you doubt the existence of the alleged unbalanced person who indeed has no real social life or friends... Well doubters, if you want proof.. This December on Boxing Day, take a run down to NEXT in Donegal Place in Belfast 7am... Sleeping Bags
Being honest though, the average shopper (including myself), is a combination of all three.
Wednesday, 2 January 2008
I still currently have a 7ft tall crackin christmas tree in my living room, apparently the appropriate date to remove said tree is on the 6th of January on the feast of the Epiphany? but I recently found out that the date of that celebration is the 12th day of January? hence those 12 days of christmas... Ahhh no, that's not right, the 6th of January, is apparantly the 12th day AFTER Christmas! I'll get it right yet :)
Christmas was great this year, but it didn't seem to have the same great excitement that it usually does, not as many people had their Las Vegas style decorations and lights on the exterior of their houses in late November, few taxi drivers asked me "well.... you have all in for Christmas love?", not sure if thats the reason, but I find the idea of keeping my tree up until the 6th of January this year quite depressing.
Who says I should anyway? After much extensive research on the web (well ok, a five minute google search) I have discovered the following:
"Take down the Christmas Tree and all decorations BEFORE the new year. You are celebrating the birth of Christ in one year and even though I have heard it is bad luck to leave it up after the 1st, it just seems logical to take it down before the year is over."
"My wife says her tradition is to take down decorations and not turn on the lights after New Year's Eve. She says it is bad luck to bring the old year into the new. Frankly, I miss not having the lights on on New Year's Day. It always seemed more festive for the holiday."
"In the liturgical calendar the Twelve Days start on December 25th, and the Twelfth Night is January 5th, which is when we traditionally take down the decorations."
"Liturgically Jan 6th is ABSOLUTELY the correct day to take down the decorations. Do it when you are on your own & hubby and the kids are out, a large drop of left over liquid christmas cheer is recomended before starting to make the chore more palitable."
As for me... I'm takin it down tomorrow, then I'll look forward to a repeat performance next Christmas :)
Tuesday, 1 January 2008
Either way I have a good feeling about this year, I think it will bring alot of good changes for us all :) The difference between a lucky person and an unlucky person, is that a lucky person is open to all opportunities in any situation, not just the ones they expected.
(*Originally a Scottish Tradition "To ensure good luck for the house, the first foot should be male, dark (believed to be a throwback to the Viking days when blond strangers arriving on your doorstep meant trouble) and should bring symbolic coal, shortbread, salt, black bun and whisky.")